拼音bù yīn bù lóng bù chéng gū gōng
结构复句式成语
姑公:婆婆,公公。指作为一家之主,对下辈的过失要能装糊涂
《释名·释首饰》:“不喑不聋,不成姑公。”
不喑不聋,不成姑公作宾语、定语、分句;用于劝诫人。
You can't be the mother-in-law or father-in-law of your son's wife unless you show youself both stuip and deaf.
不痴不聋,不成姑公